Death Cafe write-ups

Online Death Cafe Tunbridge Wells BST Write up

Posted by carmeldunmall on Aug. 4, 2022, 3:32 p.m.

14 of us joined in a discssion on the silence around talking about death. It was a varied conversation tonight, very tender in parts.

Thank you to all who attended.

Death Cafe Whangarei Write up

Posted by Jo Moselen on July 31, 2022, 5:16 p.m.

Another succesful Death Cafe of 11 people in total. Feedback was postive and people are definitely get something out of attending. Discussions ranged from personal stories of death of a loved one, near death experiences and what happens after death, Hospice and suports available to the dying and their families.

Thank you everyone for coming.



Death Cafe Whangarei Write up

Posted by Jo Moselen on July 31, 2022, 5:11 p.m.

After not having had a Death Cafe for over a year it was great to meet again. There were 18 (including the two facilitators), all of us women, regulars  and new comers. The  lively and engaging discussion included, end of life choice, what do you do when someone dies, unexpected death and post mortems, what makes a good or bad death. The feed back was unanimously positive about the event, the negatives were about noise and difficulty hearing for some. We tried a new venue and as with all past venues the noise (cafe's are noisey) is the one negative. This venue fully supported and encouraged Death ...

Dunstable Death Cafe Launch Write up

Posted by DunstableLibrary on July 22, 2022, 8:30 a.m.

The first Death Cafe session in Dunstable went much better than expected. There were a couple of reservations in advance but after we started we had gotten to a nice group of 9 (including the facilitator).

The topics we discussed were funeral rites in different cultures and religions, we touched upon the topic of cremation vs. burial, as well as what does it mean to respect the wishes of the dead when planning a funeral.

Overall it was a rich discussion and everyone's feedback was overwhelmingly positive. It is a relief as we have been planning on having the meetings on a monthly basis but were not ...

(Sequoias First) Death Cafe Write up

Posted by FriarTuck1 on June 28, 2022, 1:36 p.m.

We had 16 people total (counting the two of us as facilitators) and had a lively discussion of experiences, hopes, fears, and thoughts about death and dying. The post-event evaluations were unanimously positive and at the end of the session, the group wanted to meet again with the same people. We told them that there was a wait-list of people in the building who wanted to attend and who would get first crack at the next one in about a month. But again, feedback was overwhelmingly positive and folks were quite appreciative of the chance to talk in a safe place.  

Online Death Cafe, Albany, CA PDT Write up

Posted by merav on June 28, 2022, 1:32 p.m.

 Lori and Jim hosted this June Death Cafe.Past feedback requested we remain in one room instead of Breakout room  We welcomed 3 regualr attendees and 3 new. We are west coast, east coast, and mid west. 

Topics on the minds and in the hearts for discussion: end of life planning, grief, and caring for another at end of life. 

 Appreciation for a space to listen and be heard, validation of "I am not alone" The next Scheduled Death Cafe Albany, CA PDT is July 24th.

St Albans Death Cafe Write up

Posted by KRay on June 27, 2022, 8:37 a.m.

A lovely group of people of different ages and backgrouds came to this Death Cafe in St Albans. These are some of their comments on the evaluation form; 'very useful and interesting forum', 'Lovely to talk openly with other people about death', Really enriching experience - it opened my eyes to other peoples views', 'It made me think about writing a will'.

Death Cafe - Kangaroo Point, Brisbane Write up

Posted by Suzanne on June 23, 2022, 4:40 a.m.

Seven people attended our Death Cafe on 22 June 2022 in Kangaroo Point Brisbane, Australia. Conversation flowed freely for the full 90 minutes. Participants look forward to attending again on a regular basis. They appreciated the respect that filled the space, the sense of connection and the freedom to share with like-minded people about dying and death. It was felt that from talking about each others vulnerabilities around the topic of death, they could more easily identify what their needs were to approach their own inevitable death and the deaths of loved ones. They were pleased to receive relevant information and direction to resources to help fill their ...

Online Death Cafe Cymru BST Write up

Posted by Sarah Hillcoat on June 19, 2022, 7:37 a.m.

We are taking a break from offering Death Cafe Cymru for a while over the summer. Please check the website for more updates towards the Autumn period. 

Best wishes to all.

Sarah and Brigid.

Fort St. John Death Cafe Write up

Posted by nkaspar on June 8, 2022, 4:42 p.m.

The FSJ Palliative Care Society hosted a small (11 people) but successful Death Cafe on June 1st.  The cafe, guided by Roz Smith - a local counsellor, had shorter but free flowing conversation about death and dying and how its impacts our lives.

Participants moved from group to group with about 4/5 changes during the course of the evening.  Conversations were focussed on the impact death has in our lives but the actual topics were very diverse, as is to be expected when addressing such a complex topic.

Participants agreed that this was a worthwhile endevour and so we will plan to have about 3 Death Cafes over ...

Drogheda Death Cafe Write up

Posted by DroghedaDeathCafe on May 31, 2022, 8:46 a.m.

We had a very heartwarming evening for our first Death cafe in Drogheda. 14 attendees, on top of 2 facilitators. Interesting topics for discussion including legacy and how we would like to be remembered, the importance of being prepared in terms of wishes and planning, options for funerals now that less traditional routes are becoming more mainstream, some interesting resources and books available online on death in general, the traumas that stay with us from our exposure to death from childhood.  A huge thanks to the Rugby club for sponsoring the venue.  

May Online Death Cafe CDT Write up

Posted by DeathCafeIowa on May 26, 2022, 2:52 p.m.

This month's Death Cafe was held on May 17th with around 8 attendees from all over the United States. A lot of good conversation was had this month!

Funeral traditions were discussed and a members talked about why we still carry on with old traditions in funerals if they have no personal meaning. What are the individual's own wishes as apposed to what the traditions are was a great topic of discussion! Members asked what options they have if they want to have a non-traditionsl funeral and members mentioned starting a google doc of wants for a funeral. 

Members also thought about how to honor their ...

Death Cafe Wien Write up

Posted by Alexandra Kleinheinz on May 25, 2022, 9:56 a.m.


Diesmal fanden wir uns im Garten wieder mit einem herrlichen Buffet, auf dem sogar ein Korb mit Erdbeeren stand.


Thematisch hatten wir wieder einen weiten Bogen: Von den Todesgöttinnen ging die Reise zu den Dingen, an die noch wenige gedacht ...

Online Death Cafe, Albany, CA PDT Write up

Posted by merav on May 24, 2022, 5:40 p.m.

Lori and Jim hosted this May Death Cafe. Our first in one room. We agreed to try one room in June. We welcomed 7 regualr attendees and 3 new. We are west coast, east coast, and mid west. 

New learning, self reflection, caring and sharing. A feeling of inclusion and welcoming. A some reported enjoying all being in one room instead using a breakout room.


Online Death Cafe Cymru BST Write up

Posted by Sarah Hillcoat on May 22, 2022, 4:15 a.m. 1 comment

An interesting cafe with diverse topics including: 

end of life care; non-religious pastoral support; in contrast to the past, lack of time or training for clinical staff to support the dying; sharing someone’s last moments as an honour; families reacting differently to talking about death; accepting without judgement, people’s wish not to talk about death; birth and death as  experiences common to all of us; advance care planning; different cultural reactions and rituals surrounding corpses; the importance of celebrating someone’s life; situations of denial around dying and death.

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