Death Cafe write-ups


Death Cafe Newtown Australia Write up

Posted by Melissa Halliday on Feb. 15, 2026, 8:09 p.m.

A delight to host another lively Death Cafe on Saturday (Valentines Day) and enjoy some meaningful conversations over tea and cake. 

Feedback forms showed that participabts generally enjoyed their time and wished it had gone longer.

One remarked that he felt there was not enough talk about death but as I mentioned: end of life discussions are free to go where the speaker wishes and as host I seek to facilitate but not control the conversations. That said, with some big personalities in the room, it was necessary to bring the talk back to allowing the next person the opportunity to share. I usually have a timer  set ...


Tucson Death Cafe Friendly & Fearless MST Write up

Posted by TucsonFFDeathCafe on Feb. 11, 2026, 10:17 a.m.

Here’s a big secret. At Death Cafes we may talk a lot about death, but we are really talking about how to live with death in the world. We know about near death experiences, but not actual really for-a-while die and come back to tell about it, yet. The fact that there are, by default, no experts in this area is really freeing. We are free to have our own ideas, opinions, venture to share them, listen to others and try on new ideas in a safe environment. We’re all just people in process. Life in progress, go slow. It’s my favorite thing about Cafes ...


Second Sunday Death Cafe Portland, OR Write up

Posted by nomenoyou1 on Feb. 10, 2026, 9:21 a.m.

Rosalie facilitated a small table (with Ellen). The conversation moved easily with 2 participants sharing personal experiences with the death of a beloved family; one person who chose not to share (and left at the break) and one support person. The conversations moved around death at work places (hospitals, during Covid, in assisted living and memory care) and the lack of conversation and support for staff and other residents; complicated grief; control and power issues regarding finances and wills; people being "not invited" to funerals due to LGBTQUIA and family issues; how to support people and prepare yourself for death; and joy around care for a loved one ...


Central Houston’s Monthly Death Cafe - February 2026 Write up

Posted by Houston Death Cafe on Feb. 5, 2026, 10:39 p.m.

References for Central Houston's February 2026 Death Cafe

 

We had 33 people attend this month's dialogue; an honest, impassioned, and vulnerable conversation ensued. Thanks to every one of you for your presence and contribution to our shared space.

 

Below you can find links to various things mentioned during the dialogue.

 

If there is something missing from my list you'd like to add and easily share with the group, just leave a public comment in the box at the bottom of this page.

 

Local groups & resources

 

- Bo's Place

https://www.bosplace.org/en/

 

- Death Collaborative

https://deathcollaborative.org/

 

- Empty Bowls Houston

 https://www.houstonfoodbank.org ...


Kirby Muxloe Death Cafe Write up

Posted by Catrina Young on Feb. 3, 2026, 9:44 a.m.

There were 4 of us in attendance this month, two of whom were new to the cafe.  Valuable conversation around the importance of talking about and preparing for death.  Lots of laughter and excellent refreshments.  Thanks to attenddees and hope to see you at future cafes.

All welcome - next cafe 20 April 2026


Virtual Death Cafe Louisville EST Write up

Posted by Justin Magnuson on Jan. 28, 2026, 2:10 p.m.

It's hard to believe I've been hosting Death Cafes since 2014. Occassionally I think this is the last one and then the conversation reminds me why I started hosting them in the first place.There's are still stones to turn and work to be done. 


Venice, FL Quarterly Death Cafe - an Important Conversation Write up

Posted by finaljourneydoula on Jan. 28, 2026, 1:22 p.m.

Fifteen people shared experiences, ideas, laughter, and tears at our recent Death Café held in the Library Room of Waters Hall.  We discussed loss and how grief can be unpredictable and linger, and explored how an End of Life Doula can provide services to support us now, before we are at the end of our days or as caregivers of others. We were pleasantly surposed to have the company of three Death Doulas (plus me), and a published poet who wrote a book on grief.  It was an amazingly vibrant afternoon!
Within our circle of discussion, we touched on poetry, novels, and non-fiction (including checklists we can use ...


Mourning Brew Death Cafe with Marissa Jane Write up

Posted by Marissa Jane on Jan. 27, 2026, 7:27 p.m.

Thank you to everyone who joined our Death Cafe meeting tonight. Despite some initial technical hiccups with the meeting link, we came together for a rich and meaningful conversation. After introductions, we dove into what turned out to be a deeply personal exploration of connection, loss, and communication.
How We Say Goodbye
A question was posed which led us into a vulnerable conversation about saying goodbye to people we love. It was beautiful to hear the different ways we all express love and appreciation—some of us say it out loud all the time, while others show it differently. We talked about writing cards or letters to let ...


Valparaíso Death Cafe en Terruá Bistro Write up

Posted by Yo me creo la Muerte on Jan. 22, 2026, 8:28 a.m.


Anchorage Death Cafe 907 Write up

Posted by DeathCafeAk on Jan. 20, 2026, 1:10 a.m.

We invite you to join us anytime!! We're demystifying the death conversation one person at a time.  We're delighted to hold this sacred space for individuals to meet and respectfully share their thoughts (about all things death and dying) without advisement  or judgement.  Attendees are empowered to take the necessary self- determined steps to both live and die well. 


Spencerport, NY Death Cafe Write up

Posted by director@aurorahousewmc.com on Jan. 17, 2026, 12:42 p.m.

Please join us at the Spencerport NY, Death Café for open conversations on death and dying, and together we will create a safe and supportive environment to explore and ask questions with no set agenda, outcomes or themes. Please note that this is a discussion and not a grief support group, although we acknowledge that grief may arise for some as we discuss topics that sometimes touch us deeply. 


Marie Curie Death Cafe Penarth Write up

Posted by Rhi Axtell on Jan. 14, 2026, 6:01 a.m.

 

Facilitator: Lisa Casson

There were five of us in attendance this month, and, to quote one of the attendees, it felt like a ‘meeting of like-minded people’. Right away during introductions, a seed was planted which would shape the discussions throughout the café: How do we stay in the moment? How do we slow down and appreciate what we have? Especially with the consideration that we could die at any moment.

 

With this question to consider, we also discussed what we need to have in place – a living will, for sure, and power of attorney, but also what conversations do we need to have with our loved ones ...


Portland, OR Thursday Evening Death Cafe Write up

Posted by nomenoyou1 on Jan. 9, 2026, 4:12 p.m.

We had 14 people at this Death Cafe, our largest Thursday evening turnout in several months. The Peace House fireplace was lovely and comforting. Linda facilitated one group and David facilitated another. One table discussed the role of a death doula, the uncertainty of life, the challenges of deciding how much to involve children when a grandparent or parent is dying, how a child's experience with death at a young age can affect them decades later -- among other topics. As always, tea, cake (chocolate), gluten free vegan cookies and other treats were served. 


Death Cafe Venice FL - An Important Conversation Write up

Posted by finaljourneydoula on Dec. 31, 2025, 2:28 p.m.

This event was as meaningful as ever. We had 11 people, yet each person had a chance to talk when moved to contribute. 

The group consisted mainly of Unitarian Universalist members (from Venice, FL), but these meetings are open to all. 

We begin by centering ourselves and bringing our thoughts to the [often difficult] topic of death, dying, our beliefs and discoveries.  We shared local experiences. It was great having this even in October - a month of celebrating death and renewal.

After the event, some let me know that they'd like more information about a Green Burial, or other related topics.  

I'm happy to oblige; I ...


Virtual Death Cafe Albany, CA USA 4TH SUNDAY 4PM Write up

Posted by JimKirkpatrick on Dec. 29, 2025, 7:24 p.m.

Genevieve and Jim have cohosted this Death Cafe since July 2022. Men and women from USA North and South East Coast, North and South West Coast, Mid West, Canada and Australia. After intros we spoke about when we want to die and a desire to live, meaning and purpose for living, and the care for a loved one who is dying. 


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