Death Cafe write-ups
Death Cafe in Leeds Write up
Posted by Philip Sheridan on May 4, 2017, 7:02 a.m. 1 comment
“Thank you.”
As people left, many expressed thanks and appreciation to the organisers of this Death Café. Those attending came from many different walks of life and each individual held a different perspective on death. Some came with questions, others with recent experience of death; all with a desire to talk and listen to others in an open and welcoming place.
Those attending the session were a mix of colleagues, friends and strangers to each other yet the session was marked by honesty and intimacy.
Conversation, washed down with tea and cake, was accompanied by laughter, sadness, enthusiasm and curiosity. The topics discussed encompassed the physical, spiritual, social ...
The Near North Palliative Care Network hosted it's first Death Cafe on April 26th, 2017. It was a huge success, thanks to the over 30 attendees. We will be hosting another Cafe in September! Some of the feedback included:
enjoyable, pleasant, refreshing, love, informative, good sharing, enlightening, expanding, thought provoking, validating, calming, friendly, empowerment and comfortable.
We are looking forward to the next one.
Death Cafe Tampa Write up
Posted by Cat Martin on May 1, 2017, 5:22 p.m.
A lovely time was had by all!
We were in one of the conference rooms this time. It was a wonderfully quiet room, and made for an intimate event.
Thanks to Roberto Torres of The Blind Tiger. Thanks to those who attended.
Death Cafe Calgary Write up
Posted by Death Cafe Calgary on April 30, 2017, 9:39 p.m.
Another Sunday afternoon in Calgary spent at another Death Cafe!
Twenty people came to Rosso Coffee Roasters (which was a feat since we were competing with Comic Con right across the street)!
What a wonderful community, sharing ideas and stories.
Thanks to the terrific staff for all their help. Everyone very much enjoyed the delicious tea, coffee, and treats!
Death Cafe in Devon Write up
Posted by Nixie James-Scott / Ruth Chambers on April 30, 2017, 6:45 a.m.
We would like to say a great big thank you to the wonderful folk who came to our recent Death Café at Griffin's Yard, South Molton! There were 15 people who joined us, mostly new to our Pop Up Death Cafés...the ages ranging from 28 to 80...the conversations full and frank....moments of great poignancy, illumination, deep sharing and much laughter! All alongside excellent drinks and cake from Griffin's Yard - so a big thanks to them too! Just starting to share information about our Dying Matters Awareness Week events in May - we hope that many of you will be able to join us ...
Belleville, IL Death Cafe Write up
Posted by maggieboone on April 26, 2017, 10:46 a.m.
Belleville Death Café Summary 4222017
The summary for this meeting contains a lot of information (either by attachment or websites listed). Our discussions were varied and all pertained to internment or inurnment as well as ways to memorialize our dead loved ones. The information is by no means, legal advice and should only be used for educational purposes. That is fitting considering the purpose behind the Death Café is to educate individuals about death to dispel avoiding or fearing aspects of death. When that happens, one can then proceed with living. Death is as natural and inevitable as birth.
Here are the educational materials promised. I am working ...
Swindon Death Cafe Write up
Posted by Sue Holden on April 24, 2017, 5:31 a.m.
A well attended meeting which discussed what if you had an envelope with the date and time of your death inside, would you open it? I think the balnce was just about in the favour of no but it was agreed that we should make the most of our present lives anyway.
We also had a question asked about inheritnce tax and after life planning especially as new laws were coming in regarding inheritance tax.
Next meeting Tuesday 9th May in Dying Matters Awareness week.
The death cafe was attended by 15 people. It was the first event of this kind in the region and people were not sure what to expect. Conversation flowed and in the evaluation at the end in general people felt that it was a good idea and people felt that they had had a safe space to be able to discuss how they felt, their ideas and beliefs. We discussed books and movies. People talked about personal experiences and how that has changed how they see death. We talked about death as taboo and how death is dealt with in schools. One person asked the group to share ...
Death Cafe in White River Junction, VT Write up
Posted by Cynthia Stadler on April 10, 2017, 3:33 p.m.
I realized this was scheduled for Easter Sunday, so we are meeting the following weekend.
This is a great group- we have regulars and new people. lively and fun.
The April meeting we will be joined by a group og interested dartmouth Students!!
Monmouth County Death Cafe Write up
Posted by Beth Almerini on April 10, 2017, 12:03 p.m.
Nourishing conversations, tasty treats, happy laughter, gentle disagreements, new participants, and many points of view charactericized this meeting. This was a more intimate group than at our last Death Cafe and the conversation was a bit deeper. The newer participants were in their 30s and had a great deal to contribute. We all enjoyed the conversation so much, we've decided to meet again in May!
Death Cafe SE Portland Write up
Posted by Christine Borchert on April 7, 2017, 3:03 p.m.
April 7th turned out to be a pretty major windstorm but that didn't keep the 2 guests from traveling 45+ minutes to attend.
The conversation flowed really well after the introduction.
We talked about protecting each other from sadness around dying.
We talked about how to offer the opportunity to talk about a loss with a friend.
We talked about how to be okay with not being everything to everyone and how to prioritize our needs without feeling selfish.
We shared our stories of loved ones who died, shed a few tears and left feeling like kindred spirits who just spent an hour and a half together ...
Belleville, IL Death Cafe Write up
Posted by maggieboone on April 3, 2017, 12:53 p.m.
3252017 Belleville Death Café Summary
We had another great discussion. One thing that came up with one of the participants was the idea of saying, “He’s dead” did not feel quite natural (and maybe in my opinion uncomfortable anxiety on both ends of that conversation) and the preferred reference was “passed away” or “passed on”. Where did these euphemisms originate and why? The rational attitude is not fear of death or a desire to put it off for as long as possible, but perhaps to make it more comfortable to talk about it. What happens when a loved one has died and someone calls or asks about ...
Albany WA Death Cafe Write up
Posted by Albany WA Death Cafe on March 31, 2017, 9:27 a.m.
Nice change of scene for today's gathering - we had a picnic at Allambie Park Natural Burial Area. Around eighteen of us got together, complete with chairs, tables (even a lace tablecloth) and of course, our Thermoses and cake.
Given the location, it's not surprising that the discussion today largely centred on funeral options, including relative costs, the range of caskets available and build-your-own coffin projects.
We talked at length about Natural Earth Burial - what it is (interment in a fully biodegradable coffin, with no synthetic materials, in a relatively shallow, minimally marked grave), how it came about in our region (extensive lobbying around 6-7 years ago ...
Cheddar Death Cafe Write up
Posted by elizabethherridge on March 31, 2017, 7:14 a.m.
This was a lively, interesting Death Cafe. Full of laughter. Good cake. Interesting subjects. 21 attendees, split into three groups. With hindsight we would have moved around halfway, but it was a learning curve. Hope to have another one in the not too distant future. Conversation flowed easily and we had lots of literature for people to pick up... like, Is Your Green Burial Really Green, etc. Useful tool is the Good Funeral Guide. Topics covered a large range from euthanasia, roadside shrines, who do you want present at your death, end of life care, end of life care plans, DNR and many more. We used this website ...
Death Cafe ZARAUTZ (SPAIN) Write up
Posted by Iñaki Peña Bandrés on March 29, 2017, 11:11 p.m. 1 comment
It took place on March 23, 2017. In the coastal town of Zarautz (Basque Country), at Hotel Alameda.
Hosted by nurse Amaia Artze and doctor Iñaki Peña, and attended by a total of 14 people:
- 7 women and 7 men.
- Below 50 year old 7 people and >50 another 7.
- 6 health proffesionals, 8 people holding another employment status.
People came from different backgrounds:
- One man came from a Christian parish an one couple from a Buddhist community.
- One 60 year-old woman was going through the anticipatory grief for her husband, ill with cancer.
- One 40 year-old woman told us about having esoteric experiences.
Short video ...