Death Cafe write-ups
Marie Curie Death Cafe Penarth Write up
Posted by Rhi Axtell on Jan. 14, 2026, 6:01 a.m.
Facilitator: Lisa Casson
There were five of us in attendance this month, and, to quote one of the attendees, it felt like a ‘meeting of like-minded people’. Right away during introductions, a seed was planted which would shape the discussions throughout the café: How do we stay in the moment? How do we slow down and appreciate what we have? Especially with the consideration that we could die at any moment.
With this question to consider, we also discussed what we need to have in place – a living will, for sure, and power of attorney, but also what conversations do we need to have with our loved ones ...
Portland, OR Thursday Evening Death Cafe Write up
Posted by nomenoyou1 on Jan. 9, 2026, 4:12 p.m.
We had 14 people at this Death Cafe, our largest Thursday evening turnout in several months. The Peace House fireplace was lovely and comforting. Linda facilitated one group and David facilitated another. One table discussed the role of a death doula, the uncertainty of life, the challenges of deciding how much to involve children when a grandparent or parent is dying, how a child's experience with death at a young age can affect them decades later -- among other topics. As always, tea, cake (chocolate), gluten free vegan cookies and other treats were served.
Death Cafe Venice FL - An Important Conversation Write up
Posted by finaljourneydoula on Dec. 31, 2025, 2:28 p.m.
This event was as meaningful as ever. We had 11 people, yet each person had a chance to talk when moved to contribute.
The group consisted mainly of Unitarian Universalist members (from Venice, FL), but these meetings are open to all.
We begin by centering ourselves and bringing our thoughts to the [often difficult] topic of death, dying, our beliefs and discoveries. We shared local experiences. It was great having this even in October - a month of celebrating death and renewal.
After the event, some let me know that they'd like more information about a Green Burial, or other related topics.
I'm happy to oblige; I ...
Virtual Death Cafe Albany, CA USA 4TH SUNDAY 4PM Write up
Posted by JimKirkpatrick on Dec. 29, 2025, 7:24 p.m.
Genevieve and Jim have cohosted this Death Cafe since July 2022. Men and women from USA North and South East Coast, North and South West Coast, Mid West, Canada and Australia. After intros we spoke about when we want to die and a desire to live, meaning and purpose for living, and the care for a loved one who is dying.
Eustis FL Death Cafe - the Last Chapter Write up
Posted by Sharon Glass on Dec. 23, 2025, 10:16 a.m.
We provide a safe space for respectful discussion of all thngs related to death. We share feelings, beliefs, thoughts about what death is, what happens after death, what your experience has (or has not been)
You may have experienced the death of a loved one or a situation that brought thoughts of your own mortality to mind.
Speak up or just listen. Your choice.
Ashen Moon Greeley Death Cafe Write up
Posted by Rowan Hawkins on Dec. 15, 2025, 9:29 p.m.
There were new faces at the cafe tonight, especially since we had to suddenly move our location! This time we discussed lost ones passed and advanced planning, taking the opportunity to complete Advanced Directive and both medical and financial power of attorney forms. Skully was delighted to assist and help make their passing more structured when they need it most!
Portland, OR Thursday Evening Death Cafe Write up
Posted by nomenoyou1 on Dec. 15, 2025, 10:11 a.m.
We enjoyed a cornucopia of cake and cookies along with tea before our meeting last night. Scott facilitated and David and Ellen leant their insights. The group was very knowledgeable and engaged in our discussion of death and dying. With such a deep understanding in the attendees, we were able to explore each topic in detail. Each person shared their personal experiences with death and how they felt during and after the dying process. We had a person who is learning the academic side of death. Other people came from backgrounds in chaplaincy and mental health. They shared years of growth and development as they experienced death and ...
Portland, OR Thursday Evening Death Cafe Write up
Posted by nomenoyou1 on Dec. 13, 2025, 10:33 a.m.
Nine people attended this monthly Thursday evening Cafe at the Peace House in Northeast Portland. For several people this was their first Death Cafe. We discussed many tender topics including fear of death and love of life, living with a terminal diagnosis, living with grief and loss. Grief for an imperfect family member who caused us pain is especially challenging. The importance of gratitude as a daily life guide was discussed. Several people expressed gratitude for having an open space to discuss their concerns, hopes and fears. Chocolate cake, vanilla cake and gluten free cookies with tea were enjoyed, and the leftovers left for the Peace House community.
We had 25 people show up at this café. Thusly we split into two groups for sharing. People were very thirsty for the chance to share. It was nice that CBC Winnipeg gave us an interview beforehand to promote.
Ashen Moon Greeley Death Cafe Write up
Posted by Rowan Hawkins on Dec. 2, 2025, midnight
We had a lovely group today, and we all talked about aspects of the "daily death" between the transition of the seasons, societal expectations, and even the transition into parenthood or the denial of it. Skully was delighted, and the brownie was excellent!
Mostviertel Death Cafe Write up
Posted by Sabineschreiner on Nov. 30, 2025, 1:53 p.m.
Today I hosted my first Death Cafe, at my dining table in my beautiful, cozy home in the countryside.
We were 5 people, 2 friends of mine and a son with his mother from my area.
It went well, I would say, the concept of Death Cafe being totally new to all of them.
My cake had turned out really tasty, it was the first Sunday of Advent and we had an hour and a half of open conversation.
Two people are actually affected of a close relative being very sick in the hospital, the story behind it really touched the rest of us.
We also talked about ...
Chelmsford Death Cafe Write up
Posted by Jane Iskander on Nov. 28, 2025, 10:16 a.m. 1 comment
Death Café Chelmsford UK
Date & Location
The Art Place Chelmsford. 28/11.25
Attendance
- 5 attendees:
- Of whom 4 were new participants:
- 1 returning participant:
An interesting mix of familiar and new attendees, some of whom were visiting with a view to hosting a Death Café in their local community.
We began with a reminder that this is a confidential space where everyone is free to speak or simply listen.”
We clarified what a Death Café is — an open, respectful space to talk about death — and what it isn’t, ie not therapy, counselling, or a place with an agenda or intended outcomes or product.
Topics Discussed
The ...
Dulwich Death Cafe Write up
Posted by annkenrick on Nov. 27, 2025, 7:06 a.m.
Death Café report
Bell House
20th November 2026
It was a really fantastic turnout and a lovely atmosphere and we split into three tables to accommodate everyone and ensure all could have their say.
One group moderated by Melissa was a seemingly undiverse collection of white women and one man aged between 40 - 85, but each had different thoughts, styles and approaches. They discussed themes of legacy and control over death. They discussed funeral wishes and how these match up with what actually takes place. Talking about grief and how it feels to lose someone. About assisted dying and suicide.
Towards the end Melissa felt the atmosphere ...
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Overall, how would you rate this event? 5 = excellent, 1 = poor:
Average 4.75
Comment:
Excellent
Very insightful
I thought we would discuss our time before death. Once we are not alive anymore the rest does not matter to the dead person any longer
Time to think, reflect and hear other peoples views
Excellent
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Would you say that attending this event affected your feelings about death and / or life?
If Yes, please attempt to say how:
Yes, affirmed my own thoughts which thought were out of kilter!
Normalised feelings
Just kept the topic of death open for me
Yes it did bring up memories
Yes, grief never goes ...
Virtual Death Cafe Albany, CA USA 4th Sunday PST Write up
Posted by JimKirkpatrick on Nov. 24, 2025, 7:56 p.m.
We came from around US and Canada for this Death Cafe. Some new to Death Cafe. Introductions included what is on our minds and hearts this evening. Many talked of deaths of loved ones and friends. Hoidays missing some who will not be present this year. And talked how to make the most of our day to day life and especially make the most in our relationships.