Latest Death Cafe News
Death Cafe write up: City of Roses Death Cafe
Posted by nomenoyou1 on Jan. 27, 2024, 7:33 p.m.
Over carrot cake, vegan choclolate cookies and tea 19 of us discussed a range of topics from how climate change might affect how-when we die, what do you say when talking to a friend who is grieving (listen!), and the widespread misperception that dying makes you a saint (it just isn't so!). We discussed the range of feelings that arise after a loved one dies--not.much different than the range of feelings we had when they were alive. We also talked about green burial options in Oregon and SW Washington.
Our next cafe is February 7 at the Friends Meeting House at 6:30 p.m. For ...
Death Cafe write up: Kirk Bear Canyon Tucson, AZ Death Cafe
Posted by willow on Jan. 24, 2024, 8:30 p.m.
This is my first Death Cafe. We will be discussing any topic related to death. I'll have some tasty pastries and coffee to share with the group. This is not therapy or a support group.
Death Cafe write up: Death Cafe in Putney VT
Posted by Denise Glover on Jan. 22, 2024, 11:59 a.m.
Fourteen death curious folks joined us for tea, cookies, and chat about all things dying. There was a mix of people, some new to Death Cafe.
We split into two groups after our intial intro circle, and joined back together for the last half hour.
Death Cafe write up: Death Cafe Warkworth
Posted by Death Cafe Warkworth on Jan. 21, 2024, 9:09 p.m.
Death Cafe write up: Houston Peace with Death Cafe
Posted by Jasmin McGee on Jan. 18, 2024, 8:26 a.m.
My name is Jasmin McGee... my heart is so full, and I am so humbled that my very first Peace with Death Cafe gathering was a success! PJ's Coffee in Spring Branch, TX was amazing and so hospitable. We were all comfortable and had the back corner all to ourselves. We discussed the Community Agreements. We had coffee and King Cake provided by PJ's Coffee. We shared and held space for one another. We had some serious talks and we laughed. Everyone who attended left smiling and grateful - not realizing how much they needed this time and these conversations. Next month's offering is scheduled and ...
Death Cafe write up: Charlton MA Death Cafe
Posted by Kathleen Walker on Jan. 17, 2024, 5:17 p.m. 1 comment
Great meeting with about eight interested people. We talked about death and life and what it all means. We are meeting every month but will skip December.
New Blog post: Started when I was 3.
Posted by Flora on Jan. 8, 2024, 3:45 p.m.
Hi, I suffered from death anxiety for my whole life, I have a lot to tell and ask, I really just came here to relate to others.
New Blog post: Ernest Becker Foundation - a shared legacy
Posted by Jools Barsky on Jan. 7, 2024, 2:20 p.m.
Hello, Death Cafe Community,
I'm writing to share some heartfelt news that has recently touched the Death Cafe movement deeply. We have received a generous donation from the Ernest Becker Foundation, a gesture that resonates profoundly with our work and mission.
The Ernest Becker Foundation, known for its dedication to exploring the intersection of death and human behavior, has chosen to support Death Cafe as they close their doors. Their work, inspired by Ernest ...
Video: Death Cafe Sendai (interview with End-of-Life University)
Posted by Death Cafe Sendai on Jan. 7, 2024, 1:17 p.m.
Death Cafe write up: Death Cafe LPCC
Posted by Leeschwa on Jan. 6, 2024, 7:39 a.m.
Another great Death Cafe filled with a variety of conversation. I've titled this post "Where do we go?" because this theme nails the nature of the topics:
- Where do we go in that last ebbing time?
- Where do we go as a generation taking care of older parents- while aging ourselves?
- Where do we go in making living communities that help people have their best last years of this life?
More to come!
Death Cafe write up: Virtual Death Cafe Iowa
Posted by DeathCafeIowa on Jan. 5, 2024, 5:51 p.m.
We had a vitual Death Café on December 19, 2023 via Zoom. Elliott from Iowa Death Collective facilitated the café with two people attending. In our short discussion, we talked about funerals and deaths occurring during the holidays and how people cope. It was also mentioned that sometimes time doesn’t even help enjoy the holidays. This time included a brief conversation about the need for more events pertaining to certain types of causes of death, because people do find comfort being around others who have had similar significant losses. Discussing disposition of our bodies was briefly mentioned. We finished the café discussing requirements for funeral homes in ...
Death Cafe write up: Death Cafe Bendigo
Posted by Bridget on Jan. 5, 2024, 12:23 a.m. 1 comment
Facilitated by Bridget Allan of Lotus Reflections (Aust) - Death Doula, Meditation Teacher and Reiki Therapist.
2023 was a new beginning for the Death Cafe in Bendigo, Victoria Australia. Generously supported by our venue provider, The Great Stupa of Universal Compassion.
Through these gatherings, we've witnessed the courage and generosity of individuals facing their mortality head-on, embracing the uncertainty with grace and resilience. We've explored the complexities of grief, acknowledging that it's not a linear process but a unique journey for each person.
Our discussions have navigated through the intricacies of sensitive topics, from diagnosis of life threatening and terminal illness to the profound impact of ...
Death Cafe write up: City of Roses Death Cafe
Posted by nomenoyou1 on Jan. 1, 2024, 10:34 a.m.
Our last City of Roses Death Cafe of 2023 was attended by 19 people. We enjoyed a lively discussion of how death has touched us--loss of a childhood friend, sudden loss of a loved one who falls and is dead less than a day later, loss of a parent, a sibling, a chlld. One participant described living through the darkest times of the AIDS pandemic, and then living with those memories.
As usual, we talked about how hard it can be to discuss death: one participant invited a friend who responded that they didn't like the sound of "Death Cafe." Another invited a friend who has a ...
Death Cafe write up: Withington Death Cafe
Posted by Davide Erbogasto on Dec. 28, 2023, 4:48 a.m.
The first Death Cafe at Withington Methodist Church was cosy, with tea, coffee and cake. As it was a new event in the area, the numbers were limited, but two people external to the congregation came, as well as two people from the congregation. The conversation flowed for an hour and people found it really beneficial.
New Blog post: I fear death all the time for 40 years
Posted by anngottesman on Dec. 25, 2023, 12:15 a.m.
I came across some undated blog posts with comments but couldn't find a way to add a comment so I'm posting this hoping some of those who posted about their fear of death (thanataphobia) will see this post. I've been living with this horrible fear since the age of about 7. I'm now 48. I enjoy life but can't stop thinking about the fact I will die and everyone I ...