Death Cafe write-ups
How rich to share on Death amongst familiars, friends and many new faces in the sacred space of openess and beauty Sukhasiddhi Foundation provided.
Hard to fathom the many perspectives and thoughtful personal shares took place in the course of ONLY 2 hours - deep medicine.
Some skeletons came out of the closet and comfortably danced together for a bit, gaining some footing into the mystery by sharing something of what has been experienced of death so far, every ear open to one another, learning more, what moves are possible and how it might be ... heart emoticon
When it was over, I felt most of us wanting to continue ...
Tucson Death Cafe Write up
Posted by tucsondeathcafe on Feb. 4, 2016, 11:39 a.m.
Tucson’s Death Café February edition was super sweet! We had the magic number of 17 attendees and many new faces. Among them were two women who traveled from Tempe/Phoenix, a pair of Minnesota snowbirds hoping to start Death Cafe in their hometown, and someone working to bring Death Café to the local deaf community. Subjects that came up for discussion were: “How do we talk about death to our family and friends?” “What is the status of new cultural movements such as home funerals, green burials, and aid-in-dying?” “What is relief grief? Is it a common experience and “okay” to feel relieved – for any reason – such ...
A group of 21 people gathered in my home January 11th. After the initial opening information and instructions we broke into 5 groups in various locations. After about 40 minutes of conversations we took a break and then reformed into new groups for a second conversation. We gathered as a large group in the end to say a few words about our experiences. The feedback was very positive. Everyone present wants to come again. Because I had to turn people away I will find a public location that will hold a larger group next time.
Jamaica Plain Death Cafe Write up
Posted by Carolyn M. on Jan. 31, 2016, 7:59 p.m.
We were 8 people from various areas and it was so wonderful that after introductions, tea and cake was served, conversation took over without lapses. We shared books and information. It was a very congenial time. We started as strangers and left as good neighbors. We have the next date for our Death Cafe, February 26, 2016, 7-9 pm.
Westerville Death Cafe Write up
Posted by Columbus Death Cafe/Lizzy Miles on Jan. 26, 2016, 3:18 p.m.
Biggest attendance yet! We had 28 people. 100% of survey respondents said they would recommend the event to family or friends.
Hornby Island, BC Death Cafe II Write up
Posted by Sylvia Sienikehä Elysiana on Jan. 26, 2016, 1:03 a.m.
Another fantastic turnout -- just shy of 20 people. Thoughtful and insightful.
* Ziggy Stardust cake. (sort of)
Death Cafe Grants Pass Write up
Posted by grantspass on Jan. 24, 2016, 7:52 p.m.
Seventeen people came together to talk about their own interests related to death. One person said, "I had no idea what I would hear or say, ahead of time. It was great to just talk." Subjects discussed ranged from the practical aspects of advanced directives, etc. to what happens after death, to how to change our society's somber attitude toward death to more of a celebration or honoring of life. Often, there were outbursts of laughter, as one person noted, "I had no idea talking about death could be such fun!" Comments were also heard about the linen tablecloths, "fine china teacups" and "awesome cupcakes." Please join ...
Eleven people joined Julie and Sue at the Umbrella Centre in Whitstable on Saturday 23rd January. Conversations were personal, humbling and inspiring.
We also spoke of the festival of 'the Day of the Dead,' could this come to Whitstable? Communications from those who have died, how best to talk to friends and family who have life threatening illnesses, soul midwifery and discussions around taking control of our dying.
We talked a lot, drank tea and coffee and ate cake, there was lots of laughing too. Sue and Julie
Death Cafe in Toronto for widow/ers whose loss is 2+ years ago Write up
Posted by Justine Silver on Jan. 21, 2016, 4:30 p.m.
The first event for this group went well.
12 people attended.
Words people used to describe it are welcoming, unique, truthful, supportive, honest, healing, and real.
Highcliffe Death Cafe Write up
Posted by Lis Horwich on Jan. 21, 2016, 5:52 a.m.
We had an enjoyable afternoon was had yesterday with seven Death Café goers where three came for the first time.
We talked about near death experience, Soul Midwifes, will writing, planning your own funeral, listened to a tune on YouTube for a funeral, medium connection with people who have passed and much more.
Am Linzer Death Cafe im Dezember 2015 nahmen vorwiegend jüngere Leute teil, allerdings waren einige dabei, die schon mit schweren Krankheiten und chronischen Schmerzen viel Erfahrung hatten. Das Gespräch darüber, warum man doch weiter leben will, wenn die Schmerzen unerträglich werden, war sehr offen und ehrlich und schließlich sehr ermutigend.
Nach einem Erfahrungsbericht aus einer Region, wo Tod und Trauer mit sehr strengen Verhaltensregeln belegt sind, wurde in der Gruppe darüber diskutiert, wie man das eigene Begräbnis vorstellt – eine sehr lebhafte und heitere Diskussion.
Geplant war ein Abschluss um 17 Uhr, aber es wollte niemand aufhören. Nach einer kurzen Pause ...
Derby Death Cafe Write up
Posted by timdowdell on Jan. 18, 2016, 3:09 a.m.
In a wide ranging discussion a number of issues were explored including:
Advanced arrangements made before someone has died. Works well but some people feel it is actually tempting fate to even discuss such matters.
The role and legal status of a common law wife was discussed Many myths still exist re the rights or otherwise in such a partnership and the legal benefits of marriage
Metal reclamation [from joint replacement and other repairs] and how this works Practice may vary crematorium to crematorium but in future DNA records may become a feature to be considered.
Length of time to make funeral arrangements also discussed Takes longer than ...
Sue and Julie apologise that we canacelled the Death Cafe in Canterbury on 14th January as we wanted to let our venue know that we'd had no enquiries or bookings.
Thre people turned up on the day and we weren't there to explain.
We will think more carefully now about how we deal with any possible future cancelled Death cafes.
The Lewisham Death Cafe Write up
Posted by LewishamDeathCafe on Jan. 14, 2016, 1:34 p.m.
Highcliffe Death Cafe Write up
Posted by Lis Horwich on Jan. 14, 2016, 6:03 a.m.
Highcliffe Death Cafe had first meeting Monday evening. One new member came along, two others had hope to join us, but looking forward to welcome them at later meetings. We were a small group, but had some very interesting chats. One member had just lost her Mum before Christmas and could tell us her about her beautiful passing, just the way her Mother had hoped for at the age of 88. It was uplifting to hear about the passing of a close relative, when the death was expected and plans were in order. Sadness is still felt, but the funeral can be hosted as a real celebration for ...