Report back from first US Death Cafe

Thursday night’s Death Café event in Columbus, Ohio was a pleasant way to spend the evening.  Although it was hot and muggy outside, 13 brave participants came to gather with strangers to talk about death.


More than half of the attendees who RSVP’d ended up not attending.  Those in attendance could relate, and described their own nervousness about what the evening would entail.    However, as we sat down and began to talk with one another, the tensions eased and the conversation flowed.


We talked about a wide variety of topics under the sun including but not at all limited to: caregiving responsibilities , funeral customs, obituaries, legacies, hospice, regrets, advanced directives, ironic ways to die, and cultural differences in philosophies of death. 


Here are some words used to describe the event by the attendees: A great beginning, Accepting, Casual, comfortable,  connecting, educational, engaging, enlightening, eye opening, fascinating, illuminating, insightful, interesting, meaningful, open, perspectives, relaxed, satisfying, thought provoking, understand, warm.


One attendee said the event was morbid, depressing and weird and then put a smiley face with a “just kidding.”


Another attendee described his response to the event,  “This was a great experience.  I was engrossed with the richness, quality and sincerity of the other participants.  Conversation is fluid & freeflowing & yet respectful and productive.”


None of the attendees could possibly have anticipated that three hours after the event, there would be another mass killing tragedy in the national news in Aurora, Colorado.  Our hearts go out to the survivors and the victim’s families.


A hearty thank you goes to the Kickstarter donors who made this event possible:



Brian Akers

Dianna Barrett

Stephen Bierline

Darren Brew

Amy Brown

Vanessa Callison-Burch

Irina Ceaparu

Kasia Chalko

Jim Cleary

Meredith Cole

Jennifer Cotton

Christopher Dowden

Jean Egan

Vicki Fitts

Del Gaddie

Allison Gibson

John Gury

Chris Harper

Deborah Harvey

Alex Hogan

Jerri Lynn Hogg

Shelly Immel

Lori Jander

Mike Johnson

Alex Jones

Michelle Kozak

Liz Kroger

Simone Linke

Bridget McCrate Protus

Mike Moore

Catherine Murray

Lyn O'Brien

Kimberly Ogle

Nina Pelletier

Jen Poklar

Earl Quijada

Janice Rapp

Daniel Raymer

Beth Santore

Howard  Shaw III

Christian Sinclair

Don Snyder

Laurie Stevenson

Amy Stevenson

Kate Storm

Jim Sullivan

Zac Thomas

Arianna Warfel

Vanessa Wargo

Julian Wimbush

Janice Williams

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