Death Cafe profile for Arschiller

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New Blog post: Controlling the Uncontrollable

Posted by Arschiller on March 3, 2014, 8:33 p.m.

I am not, in general, a particularly controlling person. In fact, people often comment on how laid back I seem. And, that's fairly accurate, to an extent. But about eight years ago, I started to get a lot less sleep and have a lot more demands on my attention. The cause of those two issues was our first child; the result was a newly found need for control.

Our kids are older now and ...