Hosted by Sandrine Pilaz

About this Death Cafe

I am hosting this Death Café because I believe that when we dare to speak about death, we soften our fear of it — and often discover how much more fully we want to live. In my work as a hospital chaplain, I regularly witness how meaningful and healing it can be when people are given space to name their fears, regrets, hopes, and love. Yet outside hospital walls, those conversations rarely happen. I wanted to help create that space in our community.

This Death Café will be a gently facilitated, open conversation. There is no presentation, no teaching, and no agenda. I will simply help guide the flow of discussion, ensure everyone feels respected, and hold a compassionate container where all beliefs and perspectives are welcome. You are free to share as much or as little as you wish. Listening is just as important as speaking.

This event is offered in partnership with Transitions Doula, whose work supporting individuals and families through end-of-life journeys beautifully aligns with the spirit of this gathering. Together, we hope to normalize conversations around death and dying in a way that feels human, grounded, and even life-giving.

My intention is simple: to create a space where death is not taboo, but part of the honest, tender conversation about what it means to be alive.

About Sandrine Pilaz

Sandrine Pilaz is a French-born chaplain, health coach, and community facilitator based in Sioux Falls. With a background in neuropsychology and holistic health, she is passionate about creating spaces where people can speak honestly about the tender and often unspoken parts of life.

As a hospital chaplain, Sandrine regularly accompanies individuals and families through illness, grief, and end-of-life conversations. She believes that talking about death can deepen our connection to what truly matters and help us live with greater presence and intention.

Through her work — whether in hospitals, women’s circles, movement classes, or community gatherings — she is committed to fostering authenticity, compassion, and meaningful dialogue.