A wonderful & thoughtful evening in Hope!





An evening in Hope, Maine... I helped organize the first Death Cafe near the town of Camden, where I live.  The following write-up came to me a few days later from a particpant and lovely lady in the audience.  I think she got the idea behind the group event!

Tolerant treatment of touchy topic

          Death Café has an ominous ring to it. Still, I went, and met up with over twenty others who attended the event in one of our neighboring towns.

The group included a wide range of ages, both men and women. Everyone at one point or another smiled, got teary, laughed out loud, reflected, shared experiences, asked questions, and in general, had a comfortable, friendly, stress-free evening.

The goal of Death Café is to discuss death with no agenda or objective. Death Café is not a support group and definitely not a counseling session.

There were no lists, sign-up sheets, or name tags. Many of us were strangers to each other as we gathered to eat cake, drink tea, and talk about death – whatever came to mind.

In the end, it was a pleasant, life-affirming 90-minutes of considering death – our own and that of loved ones. And it was not even remotely ominous.

 

Here is another note from a Camden maine resident: 

"I had been hearing about the Death Cafe's taking place around the country for years and was intrigued. What would it be like to speak about death without all the euphemisms and taboos our society uses to push the fear of death far into a corner? To have the topic of death the very purpose of a social conversation, rather than a legal or medical necessity? For me, it was pleasant and liberating. The very act of normalizing conversation about death is revolutionary, and I hope this normalization will seep outward into conversations among family and friends.  I encourage everyone to give it a try."
 
 


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wish I could have been there
Maine is my favorite state

I enjoyed reading your post above

Sedona ;)


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