Welcome to Death Cafe

A Death Cafe is an event where people drink tea, eat cake and discuss death.

At a Death Cafe people drink tea, eat cake and discuss death. Our aim is to increase awareness of death to help people make the most of their (finite) lives.

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Running Death Cafe is great fun but does take a lot of time. If you value this work please support us on Patreon.

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Talking about death

A Death Cafe is an agenda free discussion about death. So far we've held 20340 Death Cafes.

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To date we've held 20340 Death Cafes. These never involve agendas, advertising or set conclusions. Interesting conversations are guaranteed!

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Host a Death Cafe

People who adopt the model set out in our guide are welcome to set up their own Death Cafes. So far we've held Death Cafes in 93 countries.

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Support Death Cafe

Running Death Cafe is great fun but does take time and resources. If you value this work please support us on Patreon.

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Recent posts

Death Cafe write up: Thursday Evening Death CafePortland, OR

Posted by nomenoyou1 on March 13, 2025, 11:15 p.m.

Our second Thursday cafe was delightful. We had 16 attendees in two rooms with a good demographic mix. The conversation today centered around spiritual issues. People discussed their current feelings about spiritual matters and how their life journey brought them to this place. We also discussed how faith and spirituality impacts our approach to death and dying. There were many heartwarming stories and deep sharing. We also spent some time discussing psychedelics and end of life preparations. Excellent cafe.



Death Cafe: Death Cafe: Timaru, South Canterbury | New Zealand

Posted by Jade Whaley on March 13, 2025, 5:31 p.m.



With Jade Whaley ~ Celebrant + EOL Doula

March 23, 2025, 1.00 p.m. - 2.30 a.m. (New Zealand)

Free


Hello, Kia Ora, and welcome. 

 

Join us for a thoughtful discussion about the end of life and share your experiences, thoughts, and fears about death and dying. Our group-directed conversation ...



Death Cafe: Charlotte Online Death Cafe EST

Posted by Gaye Dimmick on March 13, 2025, 9:27 a.m.



With Gaye B Dimmick

March 19, 2025, 7.00 p.m. - 8.30 p.m. (EST)

Free



Death Cafe: Desert Reflections Death Cafe Palm Springs CA

Posted by DesertDoulaLauren on March 12, 2025, 12:41 p.m.



With Anubis, Inc. & Desert Doula Lauren

March 19, 2025, 6.00 p.m. - 7.00 p.m. (PST)

Accepts donations


Together, Anubis, Inc. and Desert Doula Lauren aim to provide a safe space for conversation around the taboo topic of death. While we understand that western culture has a strong ...



Death Cafe: Death Cafe Alabaster AL

Posted by Sentfromeden on March 11, 2025, 7:36 p.m.



With Hannah Cost

March 22, 2025, 2.00 p.m. - 3.30 p.m. (Central )

Accepts donations


I'm running a Death Cafe because when I was looking for one in my area the closest one was out of state! I saw a need and decided I ...



Death Cafe write up: Regency Death Cafe Jacksonville FL

Posted by Ileana Perez Diaz on March 11, 2025, 11:56 a.m.

The primary objective was simply to get the conversation started with a focus on the Hispanic community in Jacksonville, Florida, I am grateful for the strength and guidance that helped kickstart the conversation.  A heartfelt thank you to the friends and family who supported my very first meeting.  I look forward to many more and while I know the journey ahead will be challenging, I am excited about the endless possibilities that lie ahead.    

 

El objetivo principal era simplemente iniciar la conversación con un enfoque en la comunidad hispana en Jacksonville, Florida. Estoy agradecida por la fortaleza y la orientación que ayudaron a iniciar la conversaci ...



Death Cafe: Durango Death Cafe

Posted by Lola on March 11, 2025, 11:01 a.m.



With Lola Montano

March 24, 2025, 4.00 p.m. - 5.30 p.m. (MST)

Accepts donations


Join us for conversations on everything and anything related to the end of life over snacks. 



Death Cafe: Bayfield Death Cafe

Posted by Lola on March 11, 2025, 11 a.m.



With Lola Montano

March 25, 2025, 1.00 p.m. - 2.30 p.m. (MT)

Accepts donations


A Death Cafe is a time and place where people come to share food, drink tea or coffee, and discuss death openly and honestly. The aim is to increase awareness ...



Death Cafe: Queer Death Cafe Berlin

Posted by Raf Beck on March 11, 2025, 10:41 a.m.



With Raf Beck

March 21, 2025, 6.30 p.m. - 8.30 p.m. (Berlin)

Free


As queer (and kinky) people we often have non-normative relationships, and our concept of what constitutes ‘family’ is very different to many of those around us. This may have impacted ...



Death Cafe: Death Cafe Tijuana-San Diego

Posted by DeathCafeTijuanaSanDiego on March 10, 2025, 4:48 p.m.



With Eva Navarrete

March 20, 2025, 6.00 p.m. - 7.30 p.m. (PT)

Free



Death Cafe: Death Cafe Ekaterinburg

Posted by Maria on March 10, 2025, 4:16 a.m.


With Maria Fedorovich and Yana Makakenko

March 23, 2025, 5.00 p.m. - 6.30 p.m. ((Ekaterinburg))

Accepts donations



Death Cafe write up: Second Sunday Death Cafe Portland, OR

Posted by nomenoyou1 on March 9, 2025, 11:33 p.m.

The conversations were diverse, rich and supportive. We discussed dying but also discussed loss in all of its forms (divorce, retirement, companionship, relocation). There was a lengthy discussion of working with the health care delivery system and how to navigate divergent expectations. Several people wanted to know how to make final wishes known to friends and family. We talked about loneliness and how to make connections. There were some specific suggestions on how to connect to people that would help you as you become older and need assistance. Many guests were able to suggest specific resources, books, organizations and support groups. Conversations lingered long after our ending time ...


Death Cafe write up: Erstes Wiener Death Cafe

Posted by JELLA JOST on March 9, 2025, 5:03 p.m.

Ich schreibe auf Deutsch, es ist leichter für mich, die meisten Besucher und Besucherinnen bei uns in Wien sprechen Deutsch. Vorletztes und letztes Mal war das (Haupt-) Thema Sterbehilfe. Eine Besucherin bekannt von ihren Erfahrungenausführlich zu erzähle: die Prozedur, dü Hindernisse, die Bedenken, der Prozess dahin ihrer Freundin, die nach schwerstkranken Jahren diese Entscheidung treffen konnte und damit glücklich war. Mich hat das Thema bis heute noch beschäftigt und hat Auswirkungen und macht mich in irgendeiner unaussprechlichen und unerklärbaren Weise auch froh, dass schwerstes Leid, Schmerzen, unheilbare Krankheit, totale Abhängigkeit von anderen, völliger Verlust von Autonomie, dass ein sterbender Mensch ...



Death Cafe: Peru Death Cafe: Diálogos de Vida y Muerte

Posted by ClaudiaTuesta on March 8, 2025, 4:52 p.m.



With https://www.instagram.com/dialogosdevidaymuerte/

March 20, 2025, 7.30 p.m. - 9.30 p.m. (Pueblo Libre, Lima - Perú)

Free


“Diálogos de vida y muerte” organiza Death Café en Perú, donde nos reunimos para compartir un café y conversar abiertamente sobre la muerte y nuestros duelos. Queremos abrir un ...



Death Cafe: Edinburgh Centre Death Cafe

Posted by LomondBob on March 7, 2025, 4 a.m.



With Bob Parker

March 25, 2025, 6.00 p.m. - 7.30 p.m. (GMT)

Free


A Death Cafe is a safe place to raise and discuss issues relating to death and dying.

There is no agenda. We discuss what you bring.

The event is free ...