DC-CLT Monthly Newsletter 2-20-17

I found this interesting write up in Linked In and wanted to share it. The title caught my eye, and I thought it was really progressive to discuss the topic of suicide on Linked In of all places. Hope you get something out of it:

The topic no one wants to speak about

Published on January 31, 2017

Chloé Oestreich, Founder- Director at CHLOÉSTREICH
Corporate Training

One week ago, I said goodbye to James - the man who captured my heart on a cold, wintery night in England eleven years ago. He was my partner in crime, my sidekick, and my best friend. 

Like everyone who loved and cared for him, his choice to end his life hit me like a freight train.

James was highly intelligent, successful, determined, dedicated to his work, articulate, and unbelievably creative. 

Anyone who was lucky enough to spend time with him quickly became mesmerized by the man with the infectious Colgate smile. 

'Why' is the question that I repeatedly ask myself - and although I spend every second of the day wondering, I'll never truly know. 

What I do know is that James, like many other successful young men in their twenties, suffered from depression. What makes his death harder for me to comprehend is that he was a 'doer'. Once he became aware of his mood swings, he opened up, sought professional help, spoke to his friends, and kept himself busy. He was articulate, incredibly aware and emotionally intelligent. 

As many suffer in silence, I feel that it's important to share my story with you, in the hope that no one else will lose someone they care about. 

"Life is struggle," Buddha said - and he is right. There's no such thing as a life without pain, anxiety and insecurity. We live in an era where social media and advertisements continue to portray a false sense of what life looks like - which causes not only confusion, but also alienation.  

We lost James, someone we loved deeply, partly because many of us have little knowledge of depression or how to help and support those who suffer.

Although James opened up and shared his feelings, he felt that not many people could relate to him.

I'm proud of the campaigns in Australia that are raising awareness, educating people and encouraging those who suffer to seek out help. We've made great progress but the stigma still remains.

What can we as individuals do to help and combat mental illness? 

This is a conversation that we, as a society, need to have. 

If you, or anyone you know, are working on this problem please message me. I'd love to know how I can help. 

Of other interests are YouTube shows that some may find interesting. If you've seen it, tell us what you think!

  • https://www.youtube.com/user/strindberghelium
  • https://www.youtube.com/user/OrderoftheGoodDeath/videos
  • Atul Gawande "Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End" ; http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/frontline/film/being-mortal/
  • Ted Talks about death and dying

Two months ago, there was some talk about starting a movie night regarding Death and Dying. Write back if people are still interested in starting this.

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